Gay is a damage, like being fat or alcoholic. It is a more desperate branch of promiscuity where people can generate commonality by being a member of a very welcoming 'community'. It should be recognized for what it is, and gays should be encouraged to find repair with regularity but not hate. The quiet, omnipresent societal pressure not to be gay was quite effective at limiting the number of people who capitulated to the damage for a long time. We need it back. Gays are broken, suffering people living on denial and the desperate drug of intimacy when most of them could truly be happy and whole.
Gay is a damage, like being fat or alcoholic. It is a more desperate branch of promiscuity where people can generate commonality by being a member of a very welcoming 'community'. It should be recognized for what it is, and gays should be encouraged to find repair with regularity but not hate. The quiet, omnipresent societal pressure not to be gay was quite effective at limiting the number of people who capitulated to the damage for a long time. We need it back. Gays are broken, suffering people living on denial and the desperate drug of intimacy when most of them could truly be happy and whole.