I just put my faith in God and pray directly to God. I believe the Holy Spirit can guide you, God blesses us but sometimes things don’t always work out the way we want or (adding think we ) need them to. I’ve found some of the worst experiences I went through were some of my most valuable lessons. It’s helped me to become who I am now. I am more compassionate and sympathetic/empathetic to others. God won’t give us more than we can handle, we may not like it but we can get through anything with God on your side. Pray to God