Lol yeah I would just say fuck them if they're offended, but I was just simply setting that warning out there in case anyone trying to do it differently, would get an earful (no pun intended) from the deaf community for doing it differently. Even I, as a deaf person, get corrected on some of my signs and I'd go, "Who fucking cares? You understand what I said? Good!" but then they'd be yelling at me and nagging me til I correct it but I just walk away.

You're right on the indoctrination part, the deaf community has been conditioned to the point where they actually believes the Democrats are helping them and I'd say 95% of the community is pro-Dem. I said this in another comment to someone, but it's just that they were led to always listen and believe people of higher authority (i.e. their parents, teachers and mentors and yes that also includes the government) so if you tried to tell them something different from their conditioning, they'd argue or ignore you.

Not only are they deaf, but they're also blind.

As far as politeness goes, just keep on doing what you've been doing but yeah that's a very, very tricky area to understand what you need and need not to do. But fuck that, just do what you think is best and if you get yelled at, they're just jealous that you're politer than they are.