I'm no expert, just a lifelong seeker, and I'll tell you what I've come to understand. Imagine we are all plugged into God. He doesn't need to see what we do, he knows what's in our hearts. We have the free will to seek out and understand our place with him and his plans for us on earth. What if it isn't God rejecting unbelievers, but unbelievers rejecting God that leads to their demise. God will not cut his cord with his children, it's his children who choose to cut their cord with him. Without it, their souls will not find their way back to him. Unless of course they call out to him here on earth, seeking to find him, and if they do, he will restore what they cut off.

What I've learned about the mind over the years is that it plays a much bigger role in all of reality than we may have ever imagined. Those who chose to live in misery are creating their own hell themselves. Not just here on earth, but it will follow them afterwards. We are lost souls without God, like a home built without a foundation. In the end, earth is a school, and a temporary home for the souls of humans. Our real home is with God, beyond the plane of earth. Those of us who maintain our connection to him, will find our way back to him after our souls leave earth. Anyone who seeks him, will find him.