Had a friend that became less outgoing and more reserved after his mason father got him initiated in the 1980s. His parents won the state lottery for millions of dollars and more or less disappeared. Friend moved out of state with his family. I found his mother's obit.

She was a member of the Celestial City Chapter #333, Order of the Eastern Star, where she was past matron, grand representative, and past grand officer; Pythian Sisters, Sunbeam Temple #217; 65-year member and past Honor Queen of Bethel #55 of Job’s Daughters, and member and past worthy high priestess of Victoria Shrine #83, Order of the White Shrine of Jerusalem.

Have no idea what these descriptions represent. The father, a veteran, had a military funeral. His obit only mentioned service, family and work history.