Aww thank you. I would feel more comfortable if she came here but she says she doesn't want to be a burden. I think she's quite old school in thinking if she can't pay her way then she's a burden to someone ,even if it's just until she gets on her feet. At the moment I'm extremely worried about her mental health. She was shaking and vomiting at the mere thought of him returning the other day ,she's truly terrified of him. In the past I think he's alienated everyone she was friends with which is their usual playbook. They feel isolated and have nobody to turn to. Ive told her I'm not intimidated easily and am quite stubborn and strong which I think finally sunk in the other day when I didn't back down and fired back at him. Money wise I think he's manipulated it so the bank account was only in his name. I've got her to put a caveat over the house already so he can't sell it without that being lifted.