This would be a struggle with already established HOAs but you can set up a Decentralized Autonomous Organization (DAO) where basically everyone in the neighborhood is able to propose rules and vote from the comfort of their home and no one person is in charge of everything like with your current HOA Karens. Every voter only gets one vote, every voter has some kind of proof of being a homeowner in the neighborhood in order to be able to vote.

DAOs are usually associated with blockchain projects and blockchains are how double counting votes is prevented. There's a few projects working on making DAOs without any code and just using GUIs. I think Clarity Protocol on Cardano blockchain is one.

Decentralised Autonomous Organisations (DAOs) w/ Clarity Protocol | Learn Cardano Podcast https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PyRBvURoKk

If you have a clear plan and can inform people in the neighborhood that they only have to vote in an HOA one more time while still keeping the benefits, you might be able to get a majority vote to change rules (or however it goes in your neighborhood).

What is a DAO in Crypto? (Decentralized Autonomous Organization) | Whiteboard Crypto

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHm0uUPqmVE