You know ive also wondered the same thing. I mean we all have our off days and those who are strong need to pick up the pieces for the day, BUT to claim nut up, don't doom etc doesn't help. It then also makes me think maybe these peeps aint any good at being leaders for those having off days and think "toughen up" words will help. Old schoolers? Im personally coping ok, but im empathetic which stresses me out. I have so many friends who are awake or border line enough to know covid is bs at least and they're freaking out. Interest rates keep going up here in oz, food prices are ridiculous etc.