HereHere are a few Check your ballot resources. Please contribute more to the thread.
Alabama https://myinfo.alabamavotes.gov/voterview
Alaska https://myvoterinformation.alaska.gov/
Arizona https://my.arizona.vote/AbsenteeTracker.aspx
Arkansas https://www.voterview.ar-nova.org/voterview
California https://california.ballottrax.net/voter/
Colorado https://colorado.ballottrax.net/voter/
Connecticutj https://portaldir.ct.gov/sots/LookUp.aspx
Delaware https://ivote.de.gov/voterview
Georgia https://www.mvp.sos.ga.gov/MVP/mvp.do
Maine https://apps.web.maine.gov/cgi-bin/online/AbsenteeBallot/ballot_status.pl
North Carolina https://northcarolina.ballottrax.net/voter/
Meck, North Carolina https://www.mecknc.gov/BOE/Pages/DID%20MY%20VOTE%20COUNT.aspx
New Hampshire https://app.sos.nh.gov/Public/AbsenteeBallot.aspx
Pennsylvania https://www.pavoterservices.pa.gov/pages/ballottracking.aspx
Vermont https://mvp.vermont.gov/
Virginia https://www.elections.virginia.gov/citizen-portal/
Washington https://voter.votewa.gov/WhereToVote.aspx
West Virginia https://voter.votewa.gov/WhereToVote.aspx
Wisconsin https://myvote.wi.gov/en-US/MyVoterInfo
More (Source for most if the above) https://www.the-sun.com/news/1746107/2020-election-checking-counted-votes-states-election/
these are things to request from your voting district... another Anon said their system usd to tell who you voted fore but no longer does.. so it is possible. each ballot should have a unique id number and given the audit process in AZ there should be a ballot image in the system...