Won’t get too detailed so I don’t accidentally dox myself or something, but I’ve been considering my life up to this point, and I can’t help but feel I definitely might’ve wound up on the wrong side of history if divine intervention and my own intuition hadn’t gotten in the way.
I know people who work at Neuralink, Facebook, Google, IBM, etc. My college was pretty successful for job placement at big name companies
I’ve been in some of the “financial centers and think tanks” of the world as a student. I was presented with opportunities to engage with their work, especially toward the end of my undergraduate career. Most of these people made me uneasy; at the time, I couldn’t place my finger on why. But I always felt the urge to keep those places at arms distance.
As a gifted kid, I feel incredibly blessed to have gotten out of public school relatively unscathed. I feel incredibly lucky I didn’t join the status quo in college despite the pressure to conform.
This refusal to conform is definitely giving me some roadblocks now that I’m trying to get started in my career, but it does feel like I’ve dodged many bullets on the journey. And I’m glad I’m not part of the hive mind like most of my peers.
Anyone else have the same experience?
Edit to say: thanks to everyone who has commented! Really appreciate knowing others have similar journeys.
There was a video on YouTube of a young man I think he was from the Netherlands. This was years ago. He wanted to share his experience working in a very successful financial enterprise that might have been a large bank. He explained that as the new guy if you were talented you got asked to attend meetings and social gatherings. He said gatherings started out harmless until he was invited to a meeting and as he explained what he saw and what he would have to do, he couldn't talk he was sobbing. He knew he had to participate to continue in this employment and he couldn't. He had to leave this company and he may have implied that he needed therapy.
This is the world we live in. I believe this is what Trump is fighting every day.
My SIL is a banker in the UK, and she pulls in some serious $$. I've been wondering.
They use wealth as a tool. I am thankful I was never tempted.
Same. Good to have nice things.... but I absolutely will not compromise my integrity or my philosophy. It has cost me promotions.... I don’t care. Don’t know about my SIL though