I wish that were true but the normal ones are the exception. I used to work in several fields that were filled with gay men and a few gay women. A LOT of my guy friends were gay, I worked with many of them became close friends, etc. stayed friends through the years.

After the Trump presidency and Covid, I only have one gay couple left as a friend, all the rest have become LGBT/drinking the Kool-Aid assholes. These are people I stuck up for and defended and support in the 80s and 90s when it was not easy to be gay and there was no LGBT crap. Well they did not stick up for me. When I was being suppressed, shadow banned, put down for being a Christian, etc. in fact, many of them celebrated and thought it was only right that those things were happening to me. I also heard through the grapevine that many of them became rabid anti- anti-Vaxers, total mask Nazis, etc., so I guess it’s even better that we’re not friends now. Some of them had long-term aids from their heyday sexcapades in the 80s and 90s. I’m betting being boosted to the max has not been a fun experience for them. Reap. Sow.

My one normal friend and his partner (who did stick up for me/were emphatic) don’t even like hanging out with other gay people, they only hang out with straight people. They’re totally gay, but it doesn’t define them and it’s not their whole fucking life. 30 other gay people I knew all went the other way. Some rabidly so. So I do think a broad brush does apply here. Like you, I know there are exceptions, but they are the exceptions, not the rule. I sincerely hope that changes with the great awakening whenever that happens.