Hi all,
I know a lot of you are very smart so I wanted to seek your advice. Currently, I'm in my late thirties and come from a good family background. However, I don't have any long-lasting friends and my love life is non-existent. However, I do try to meet people and get along with them, but in the end it never works out.
I've never had a real girlfriend before, although I've tried dating and never got too far. After trying so many times and failing, it's starting to feel like it's not meant to be. I also feel like I don't relate to the general populace. Most are unawake to the realities of the world and are brainwashed by media and popular opinion. I tend to go against the grain and because of that, it's hard for others to relate to me.
I also I have aspirations to do something amazing and believe I have the potential to do that, but I am unsure how to go about that. I don't have anyone to guide me so everything comes from the top of my dome. I'm happy to be alive, but I have a strong desire to do something notable and great. But I'm afraid that desire might not be enough.
What do you suggest I do to live a better life?
I have been married 3 times so I may have some knowledge to impart. The first I met in church, second at a bar and third and love of my life at work. The first lasted 12 years with the daughter of a minister. I wanted someone to be an ally of us, but she decided she wanted to take sides against the world without regard to us but just status.
The second had many family issues that she used as excuses for her insanity. You must adopt an ideology of zero drama to have a great relationship. Drama is for lefties and always ends badly. Adopt a zero-drama policy and move on immediately. That one lasted 8 years.
You are near the age I met someone I have been with for 20 years now. If either one of you keeps score you have not found your soulmate so move on now. Both of you have to decide if anything about the other will prevent you from being together for ever.
The most important thing you can do is move on if the relationship is not going to get better and not worse. Don't settle for almost because what you are looking for does exist.
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