You are probably right, I don't claim to be an emotionally strong person. I was friends with all four, and there's a lot more to their stories for sure. I felt sorry for the one that I didn't re anything sexual regarding her, the one with the BF who broke her arm. She had a problem from men, but certainly didn't bring it onto herself. She was an off and on A collage student yet always felt stupid or at least she told us that.

The other three shared their sexual exploits with me, and I didn't ask for the information. I suspect that you don't like my comment about alcohol, which is just a liquid drug, and has caused more harm than all the rest of the hard drugs out there.

Because of witnessing a lot of domestic abuse, I had a phobia about being around people getting drunk, but working in that hotel I learned that most people can drink a bit and not turn into Mr. hide.

Those Bartender's and I became friends, and often they would pay me to mop behind the bar, take out the garbage and vacuum. When they had a good night and wanted to go home. I was there on third shift and fit cleaning up for them in my duties.Good for them and good for me, a few extra bucks. I had a few funny adventures myself, but am proud that I never cheated on my wives or the GF in between, even though hotels often have opportunities.

Chick bartenders are a notch above strippers and often have done that as well.