You should have pity for her, but some people are too far gone for the “average” person to be able to break their conditioning, not lumping you in with the normies or anything but if you can’t get her to come to common understandings on world views the relationship would never work, but fren I know how you feel, it almost feels noble or like there is a duty to wake every ailing person but when that person is so heavily enthralled, you begin wasting so much of your own energy which otherwise could have been put elsewhere to advance your own life and personal growth