Enjoying :)
This is a suggested strategy to resolve fear challenges.
Examples of enjoying yourself during a storm:
According to her strategy in her short 3 minutes video below, those enjoyments above would be good examples of what really gets under the skin of people with Evil behaviors/narcissists people
Another benefit for you, is that with HUMOR it is much easier to go through a storm. Simply because your humor rappels their fear.
Storm NEVER last forever. And there are always SUNNY days after the storm, she says in her video :)
I suggest focusing your time and energy on anything POSITIVE, ABSURD, or HUMOR around you. Whatever "enjoying yourself" means to you. To each their own fun. While you are enjoying yourself, ignore anything fear-based. Why? Because people with Evil behaviors want you to focus on fear. Because they know that for their fear-based strategies to grow, it both depends on and needs your time, focus, and energy. If you ignore fear. Fear will shrink down. All of the above while you are ENJOYING YOURSELF with your loved ones :)
Attribution to @2ndenthusiast for the funny meme
3 Minutes Video About Suggested Strategy
Related 3 minutes video. According to her, the only way you can get under people with Evil behaviors/narcissists' skin is to enjoy yourself. LAUGH at them, make them look like the JOKE that they are, she says:
https://www.bitchute.com/video/rmIPd8S0KB5O/
In other words, what she is saying is that while you're in a storm, enjoy yourself. What really piss off people with Evil behaviors is when you look like you are having real fun. That you're having a great time in a storm. That you are enjoying yourself. Why does this piss them off? Because people with Evil behaviors want to FEEL power over you. They need to feel that they CONTROL you. That you both feel and look miserable and SAD. So when they see you ENJOYING yourself. You're indirectly communicating to them that their FEAR-based strategy is not working. They resent you. Because they do NOT get the feeling of control and power they wanted over you.
Then they stop targeting you. Next, they try to target someone else. Still hoping to get their fake feeling of control and power over others. If everybody is ENJOYING themselves, this means that fear is not working on them. In turn, people with Evil behaviors increasingly LOST their primary real motivation.
People with Evil behaviors have the fake believe that by pushing you down, they bring themselves up. But it is not working. Because after they can't find anybody to target to push down. As they are none left. They realized that they are depended on YOU for their feelings. Then they give up. They move on to their next Evil strategy. Any other strategy that would give them a fake feeling of control and power over others.
REAL CONTROL start with self
Why do people with Evil behaviors try to control you? Maybe because they do not have control over themselves. I bet that they have not yet realized that a feeling of REAL control and REAL power start with SELF. NOT others ;) In other words, a real feeling of control and real power start WITHIN yourself. It does not start with others.
Happiness is within. The answers are within. Whatever you need right now is within. To each their own happiness, answers, thoughts, feelings. What is successful for you might fail for others. Why? Because each person is both unique and valuable. Including you.
"a real feeling of control and real power start WITHIN yourself"
Truth.
People seek happiness in their lives by doing things, and being things, but that's wrong.
People should be seeking peace. With peace you bring true happiness.
Life is suffering, you can't run away from it.
To find peace, you accept that suffering happens.
And happiness follows.
I missed this post when it came out and I'm so glad you referenced it another post today. I'm saving it for future reference!