I have. It was a wonderful experience!!! I simply looked at the young lady after she vehemently insisted I do address her pronouns as neutral as possible. ( Stand by!! Ready the guns as this ship is coming about!!!) and asked in a non threatening manner iwhen she (oops, "it") was born, what did she(it) have: a penis? Or a va-jay jay (Oprah terminology. It's what they comprehend) She(it) said the obvious. So I then asked her why I should refer to her in any other way other than what she truly is, a woman? Do you not enjoy the terminolgy of her, she, etc. that describes the all important aspect of your true gender? Stunned. Crickets. Deer in the headlights. She (it) could not logically argue her position. I then went on to explain to this 14 yo that she (it) were born in chromosomes as XX, not XY. No matter what you do, think, or say you will never be an XY, EVER! (Note: if I got my Xs and Ys backwards, my apologies) The only power that can do that is your creator, not you, not the surgeon, not even society. You were born as a female of the human species. End of story. After which I told her that I will not use any pronouns towards her other than the ones that truly identifies her as to what she was born as... a girl, a lady a woman and eventually even a mother.

I too love to call out to lesbians as Ladies... you can see and sense their discomforts...

Have a great day frens!! WWG1WGA NCSWIC