Didn’t cheat on her, commit dv or anything like that but I messed up pretty bad and my engagement is on the rocks now. I am so upset with myself that I haven’t ate in two days and it’s one of those things where my words don’t matter at the moment so I just feel powerless because nothing in the immediate will fix it. Only time and action will help it. I have made a plan of action I just hope she gives me the chance so I can weather this storm.
I don’t want to go into the details here but if you could pray for me I would appreciate it.
Send her flowers and a note. Tell her what you said here and tell her you want to give her time to process everything. But you would like to sit down and talk it out when she is ready. Tell her you will do anything including postponing the wedding until she trusts you again. Actions speak louder than words. I pray that God will help the two of you through this turbulent time if this relationship/marriage is meant to be.