I'm one of the few non-emasculated guys at the place I work and I regularly get people coming to me for help with shit I don't even work on or with and I ask them why and the answer is always "because you seem like you know what to do" or some variation thereof instead of the people they should be asking for help.

The shit is instinctual. They don't understand that they have less trust in the other leads because they're soyboy-esque and weak. Not trying to toot my horn or anything, just regularly occurring theme that I started noticing and then I started paying attention to the other leads and was like "maybe this is why."