We should all have the right to make our decisions on our own, and not have to beg for people to understand. Once he decided he didn't want to wear the jersey, it's done. He does not, and should not give any reason. These bullying tactics are not about being gay, but rather being in control of others. I fear the gay community is quickly losing the good will that was afforded them the last decade, if they don't stop this nonsense in their name.