Hi all,
I’ve often laughed at the prayer request threads on here, “why are we asking for strangers that don’t know our names or anything about us for prayer requests?”. I am now here humbling myself before you all asking for help.
My mother was recently sent home from the hospital, she has been battling cancer for 5 years following standard chemo treatments. The doctors are officially out of answers and sent her home with bad news (limited options left).
The doctor mentioned Fenbendazole and giving alternative treatments a shot, which we plan to do. I’m worried it’s now too late, and these alternatives won’t perform in the way they’re able to in a stronger patient.
My mother is young and her name matches that of Jesus’s mother. If you can, can you please keep her and our family in your prayers as we continue to fight this battle? I write this post with tears in my eyes and love in my heart, we need your help.
I love you all, and I’m grateful for this community. Sending you all great wishes and thanks in advance!
Edit: The support from this community is overwhelming. I thank God for all of you and the love you’ve shown my family and I. Will definitely be taking some of the advice in here as well. Peace, love and thanks to all of you and the mods!
First of all take a deep breath...either you trust that God has this or you don't...faith is believing what you don't see...
Next ....great news about her cancer counts. She really sounds like she is doing well with renewed strength and energy. She doesn't have to fully believe to make all the alternative protocol work. I think you want to lose this battle if you can win the war. Someone posted (perhaps here) that they did chemo and the alternative treatment and the mom became cancer free...and they knew it was the alternative treatment. Look at it this way...she has 20% more to work with than she did before. I think your emotions are running high because you care and you have invested yourself into wanting her to be okay. It does not benefit her or you if there are negative feelings...
We understand about the system...we know how dangerous it is to people...but you can't make someone believe that. At some point she may realize that she feels worse from a treatment...not better. Just keep doing what you are doing. I don't think it is as bad as you imagine to do both simultaneously...even though we know it is not ideal...so be humble, be positive and believe...the healing is taking place and that is what you want.
Let's let God change her heart and keep her strong enough to make it through this. It is early and I think it is wonderful that you can quantify the effectiveness of everything that you have been doing.
Just like your mom had to let go and let you make your own mistakes...you have to allow her the same privilege...that's where prayer comes in...God sometimes is the only one that changes hearts.
So don't be discouraged...you are doing everything right...just be there to encourage her to continue with the alternative protocol...that really is what you want so don't get bogged down with the stuff you can't control.
God bless all your family...this is highly emotional for everyone...I will pray for you to be positive and accepting of what you can't control. I hope you are soon back where you need to be...you surely don't want to distance yourself from your family at this time. God bless you especially to be able to do what it is you need to do...
As for us...my husband is taking the stuff... he goes tomorrow for a scan to see if it has metastasized...we'll see what happens then...I actually am having him do 4-5 days on at the beginning to see better results.
Stay in touch...
I responded to you because I knew it would be insightful, thank you for actually bringing me some wisdom.
Where I’m struggling is that this is not early. We’re on year 5 of failure after failure. but doctors say we’ve “prolonged life” after giving her 6 months originally. Quite a sales pitch, huh? The last treatment came within inches of killing her.
I think I am going to distance myself for a week or so, there’s other family members that can bear the cross and help out. I’ve said my peace and I pray I’m wrong, I just can’t continue to watch a loved one get thrust down the assembly line of our health “scare” system.
I pray for the best for your husband, there are cures available. Consider high doses (40+ ounces) of carrot juice and some chlorophyll everyday. The link below is a very informative site:
www.Chrisbeatcancer.com
Hoping things are going better for you since you stepped back from the situation. I pray your mother will make it through any chemo and that her eyes will be opened. I also pray that you get the peace you need through these setbacks that you are experiencing. Emotionally these are hard times and we really can't always trust our emotions. Determine to trust God for the outcome...whatever that may be...God bless you and your family.
They have! I’ve returned my focus to my work and my hobbies that I love (music, exercise, taking in the sunshine with my beloved dog).
I said my peace and I’m learning to surrender to God’s will, this also helps create boundaries. Realized I can no longer be around my Mother or my family for the time being because I am unable to pretend any longer like I agree with the path she is on, and that only injects feelings of stress that I don’t want to be the source of (I believe stress creates cancer).
The seed was deeply planted though, and I like to think I did what was being asked of me at the time by God. My Dad told me I need to see a psychiatrist, that was the final blow that signaled to me it was time to remove myself from the situation.
It’s crazy how once you start breaking out of the matrix, it begins to throw every sling and arrow it can at you. Even from loved ones. Really painful experience but my faith lies deeply in Jesus, no judgment from man will shake that.
Hope you’re having a blessed week!!
I think we are running out of space here...good for you...you do need to take of yourself because it is so draining when you care for sick people...sounds like you have your head screwed on properly IMHO. I have a DIL that has vaxxed her kids with every childhood vaccine known to man...it tears me up inside but I have to let it go...they are her kids.
It really sounds like you did good by your mom...maybe all that is left is to love them all unconditionally...we were never promised an easy life...keep in touch...but we need a new thread tho...