She bought Madonna tickets. {750$for 3 tickets} Firstly, she had the gall to ask me if I wanted to go. After I snidely asked if Madonna were aborting herself on stage as an encore, my wife got the picture that there's no way in hell I was going to go.
Between this and her frequent use of TikTok, the day to day war of mine has now threatened to sow the seeds of dissent in my home.
Speaking as a happily-married man of a few decades, be the beacon of light in your marriage, the moral compass. Have talks with her, non-confrontational and spoken in love. The Madonna she may remember from her youth is gone, evolved into something sinister and soul crushing.
I'm the most fortunate of men, my wife and I agree on nearly everything political and social. I tend to see the dystopian future that Madonna and her ilk present; my wife tends to see only goodness and light. I wish I had her optimism, but it's difficult, knowing history and the human heart as I do. I think a major fight is coming; she prefers to live in the moment and trust God. I do trust God, but know that He may demand some sacrifices from us in the near future.
That's a very good analysis of our relationship too.
Godspeed