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It seems like you have a lot on your plate and when that happens, it’s so easy to get overwhelmed. You think you need to make decisions fast, there are too many to handle all at once but this cloud is swirling, you want to fix it and it’s hard to know what to do first. Breathe. Ok? Just breathe. It’s always my motto to never make decisions under duress. Sleep on it. Pray on it. The decisions will come to you.
I get a strong feeling you don’t have to worry too much about showing your son you have a strong family unit. You’ve expressed that you do in your brother and father and yourself. That’s a lot! That’s positive and he will see that. Involve him in that stuff.
And meditate and pray on it all. Pray for strength and wisdom and courage. Pray for rest and try to get some. You’re no good if you get sick or worn out. I would do some activities with your son that are simple and easy. Play catch or whatever. Hikes, reading, fishing, whatever he’s into. I’m sure there are free things you can do together that will be gold to your son. Set a good example helping your brother out with things that are obvious to your son. Maybe things he could participate in? If he sees you not giving up, not wallowing in despair, working hard and showing love- well, that’s all you can do and it sounds a lot more positive than what his mom is doing.
I would invest that money quickly into something she can’t touch. Perhaps your dad’s business. I can’t give financial advice but that’s probably what I would do. Don’t just leave it in an account she could get. Maybe some people with experience in this area will chime in.
I will pray for you. Remember- and I refer to this almost daily
“I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.” — John 14:18
Your comment made me tear up. Sometimes we forget that the simplest things are the most important things. God bless you folks.
Thank you so much. I cannot thank you enough for your words of wisdom and reassurance. I will keep walking with my head on straight and ask God to bless us. God bless this community and their families. Sometimes it's more than we care to put on our family's hearts, and there are so many amazing people on here like yourself that are selfless and caring.
You don’t have to carry your burdens alone. We’re here for you. That’s what it’s all about, imho. Keep us posted.