To me, there is a scale of what it means to be a "public figure". Being a guest on a show once is low on that scale, whereas hosting that show is at the top of that scale.
If he has written a book and is attempting to gain publicity, then he is possibly rising on that scale.
So, if you're asking your question because you don't want to be on a path with a man who is ascending the public figure scale, then you need to ask him about his plans and hopes and dreams.
But... good for you that a gentleman is interested in you! That, in and of itself is very validating.
I'm a gentleman, by the way. And I felt like you were asking this question directly of me... I don't know why... so I answered. Hope it's helpful.
To me, there is a scale of what it means to be a "public figure". Being a guest on a show once is low on that scale, whereas hosting that show is at the top of that scale.
If he has written a book and is attempting to gain publicity, then he is possibly rising on that scale.
So, if you're asking your question because you don't want to be on a path with a man who is ascending the public figure scale, then you need to ask him about his plans and hopes and dreams.
But... good for you that a gentleman is interested in you! That, in and of itself is very validating.
I'm a gentleman, by the way. And I felt like you were asking this question directly of me... I don't know why... so I answered. Hope it's helpful.
Thank you for the reply. It’s helpful.