For me, I find that level of caring about what some tiny level of the internet population is passing time with, to be a chore. I mean, on this rock that's ripping through infinite space with every manner of miracle spread out before me, every day, and with love to find? Sheeeit, miss me with trying to control people. It's enough to look after myself and my loved ones and neighbors. I turn a shit version of myself when I get into imagining other people's ways of spending their time here. But I recognize my experience is not everyones and that is possible and perhaps probable that I'm fully captured by my own perspective. I value my sanity and feel I have but a tenuous grip already. Lol.