Binders cause permanent damage, see what you can do to inform/show her that. One of mine was such a tom boy, quite the bad ass, was in boxing and loved being in the outdoors. When she hit middle school they somehow convinced her she was gay and that she needed to get her breasts removed - she was 12. We pulled her out of middle school and home schooled her for two years until we could get her into a charter high school. Half way through her freshmen year she had a beautiful long hombre haircut, a cute boyfriend an appropriate relationship with him for a pair of 14 year olds, and she was happy with herself again. We had a hard long road deprogramming her, but it was never a battle, we just did it with love and information and by showing her truths. Good luck fren, at least you guys can have conversations so keep them going.
Binders cause permanent damage, see what you can do to inform/show her that. One of mine was such a tom boy, quite the bad ass, was in boxing and loved being in the outdoors. When she hit middle school they somehow convinced her she was gay and that she needed to get her breasts removed - she was 12. We pulled her out of middle school and home schooled her for two years until we could get her into a charter high school. Half way through her freshmen year she had a beautiful long hombre haircut, a cute boyfriend an appropriate relationship with him for a pair of 14 year olds, and she was happy with herself again. We had a hard long road deprogramming her, but it was never a battle, we just did it with love and information and by showing her truths. Good luck fren, at least you guys can have conversations so keep them going.