I was a total tomboy who wanted nothing to do with sex or marriage or children.
I have grown up to be a mother of MANY MANY children and I love it! Our society shunned large families, enjoying children, pushing women into careers instead of motherhood, pushed sexual degeneracy in Hollywood movies and culture, etc.
No wonder I wanted no part!
I just wanted to sexually mature at my own speed and because society was so degenerate and sex was everywhere, I wanted to hide in boy clothes and boy hair cuts. Plus, girls were petty and easy to offend and I always had a frank and up front demeanor. Maybe I'm autistic, I don't know. I had a hard time relating to girly-girls and I enjoyed sports. People naturally would ask if I was a lesbian and because I didn't know any different, I just assumed this meant I was a lesbian because I wasn't like the other girls. I would have been talked into being trans if I had been born 10 years later than I was.
In due time I came around, started to have crushes on males my age and eventually got married and had children. Now I LOVE being a woman and I love my role as mom and wife and female and daughter of God. No one was going to force me into it, I had to come into it in my own time. No doubt God brought me to this peace but I didn't know Him when I was young. The more I learned about natural law and the order God created, the more at peace I became with myself, my identity and my role on this Earth. God did not mess up in making your cousin female. He made each one of us with a mission in mind and little cousin is going to be blown away when she realizes God knit her together in her mother's womb and has a life in mind for her that is deeply fulfilling. Suffering is part of this life and it is our path to learning and saintification. Her confusion and suffering now will be a board to spring forward from in the future and will make her more empathetic towards others experiencing the same confusion.
American society as portrayed and broadcast by Hollywood and popular culture is degenerate and I think a lot of children just feel that deep in their souls. The rejection of this popular culture is not embracing LGBTQ but rejecting sexual degeneracy altogether and just being a kid, finding topics that interest you and absorbing knowledge and wisdom like a sponge. Society needs to stop sexualizing the children! It forces them to take on an identity they are not ready to adopt and it leads to confusion and poor outcomes. Children also need to see masculine protective men with strong faith in God and feminine nurturing women with strong faith in God. Children need to see degeneracy rejected and self control embraced.
Godspeed to your little cousin! May God give her eyes wide open to see. I would recommend everyone take up the practice of praying the Rosary each day if possible. It's incredible what it can do for your life and mindset and the wisdom you can obtain by meditating upon the mysteries of our Lord Jesus.
I was a total tomboy who wanted nothing to do with sex or marriage or children.
I have grown up to be a mother of MANY MANY children and I love it! Our society shunned large families, enjoying children, pushing women into careers instead of motherhood, pushed sexual degeneracy in Hollywood movies and culture, etc.
No wonder I wanted no part!
I just wanted to sexually mature at my own speed and because society was so degenerate and sex was everywhere, I wanted to hide in boy clothes and boy hair cuts. Plus, girls were petty and easy to offend and I always had a frank and up front demeanor. Maybe I'm autistic, I don't know. I had a hard time relating to girly-girls and I enjoyed sports. People naturally would ask if I was a lesbian and because I didn't know any different, I just assumed this meant I was a lesbian because I wasn't like the other girls. I would have been talked into being trans if I had been born 10 years later than I was.
In due time I came around, started to have crushes on males my age and eventually got married and had children. Now I LOVE being a woman and I love my role as mom and wife and female and daughter of God. No one was going to force me into it, I had to come into it in my own time. No doubt God brought me to this peace but I didn't know Him when I was young. The more I learned about natural law and the order God created, the more at peace I became with myself, my identity and my role on this Earth. God did not mess up in making your cousin female. He made each one of us with a mission in mind and little cousin is going to be blown away when she realizes God knit her together in her mother's womb and has a life in mind for her that is deeply fulfilling. Suffering is part of this life and it is our path to learning and saintification. Her confusion and suffering now will be a board to spring forward from in the future and will make her more empathetic towards others experiencing the same confusion.
American society as portrayed and broadcast by Hollywood and popular culture is degenerate and I think a lot of children just feel that deep in their souls. The rejection of this popular culture is not embracing LGBTQ but rejecting sexual degeneracy altogether and just being a kid, finding topics that interest you and absorbing knowledge and wisdom like a sponge. Society needs to stop sexualizing the children! It forces them to take on an identity they are not ready to adopt and it leads to confusion and poor outcomes. Children also need to see masculine protective men with strong faith in God and feminine nurturing women with strong faith in God. Children need to see degeneracy rejected and self control embraced.
Godspeed to your little cousin! May God give her eyes wide open to see. I would recommend everyone take up the practice of praying the Rosary each day if possible. It's incredible what it can do for your life and mindset and the wisdom you can obtain by meditating upon the mysteries of our Lord Jesus.
https://marian.org/mary/rosary/how-to-pray