Patience. Ultimatum is something we individually can deal with but to force another is a rough thing.

We give ourselves ultimatums all the day. We have to make choices. I am one who has many regrets but without regret we cannot understand.

One regret was to give an ultimatum to my current wife when we were young. She left me for years and during those years I kept waiting for her return.

I knew in my heart she would return and I had faith. However during these years I still lived my life and made choices. Almost married other woman. Yet i managed to stay single. I was in a serious relationship when she called out of blue one day.

I left that relationship. We have kids now. She has a MBA and more and we are still together decades later.

The decisions we make now will echo into the future. My kids exist because of the patience I had then. Yet maybe other kids do not exist too.

The now is very precious. Patience. Love. with God helps lessen the regret of the echo.

This path we are on has many futures still, but I can not unlearn the love I have for USA. This is impossible to me. This is what they want. In the valley we will be broken or resolved. ;)