Wifey and I have been taking Soursop bitters for a few months.
Company is called Amenazol or something similar. I buy direct from them since it seems fresher than what's on Amazon/ebay. It's about $20-30/bottle and we go through about a bottle a week. I take two shots each day - morning and evening. Wife takes one.
Side effect is it loosens up your digestive system at first, but I recovered pretty quickly.
I found that it makes my sinus issues better (I have allergies). Supposed to cure a wide range of ailments. It's called bitters for a reason, although I've grown to like the taste.
We're in our mid-50s and, if you younger pedes don't know what's coming in your future, older ladies start losing their sex drive as menopause creeps in. Was 18 months since the last time we got busy until last month when this stuff seemed to kick in for her. Still not where we were in our 20s and 30s, but I got laid three times in the last six weeks. Needless to say, I'm keeping us well-stocked in this magic juice.
Sure sucks in a lot of ways, still better than the alternative, at least sometimes....
TBF, plenty of older fellow men warned me what to expect when I was younger, but I still wasn't really prepared. Thought I had another 10 years to get ready...
Sad thing is I don't look my age and am in better shape than in my 40s - my libido is stronger than ever. Luckily I work from home and no longer have the distractions of lady coworkers. I'd like to think I'd be strong enough to stay faithful, but there were days in that last 18 months spell I was glad I didn't have to find out for sure. But the reality is that, at best, I got a brief respite and I get to spend the next 30 years in involuntary celibacy.
I don't know why women either don't know or don't care how important sex is to a husband's well-being and performance - at work, in interpersonal relationships, and in success in just about all aspects of life. For better or worse, it drives a lot of what we do, how we act, and whether we succeed. I'm convinced married women could collectively kill at least half the porn industry if they just made love with their husbands more often. Probably would also get more action on those honey-do items too if they didn't take away the poor guy's main motivation.
It's not a question of a trade, it's a question of motivation.
There's a reason men are driven to achieve, to do the hard things women don't want to do - whether it's wars, or fighting nature, or doing mindless chores, and the root of it is sex or the promise/possibility of sex. It doesn't even have to be a realistic possibility. We are driven to procreate at the most basic level. Heck, our race would have died off long ago if it was left solely to women.
"I find this mentality incredibly immature and a huge turn off."
Guess what men think about women's emotion-driven actions/inactions? It's not wrong, it's what makes us complementary as genders. The difference is women's needs are drilled into men's heads their entire lives, while women appear to be completely oblivious to those of men.
Men who don't support their women are pariahed by society, while women treat leaving their men unfulfilled as a running joke.
Wifey and I have been taking Soursop bitters for a few months.
Company is called Amenazol or something similar. I buy direct from them since it seems fresher than what's on Amazon/ebay. It's about $20-30/bottle and we go through about a bottle a week. I take two shots each day - morning and evening. Wife takes one.
Side effect is it loosens up your digestive system at first, but I recovered pretty quickly.
I found that it makes my sinus issues better (I have allergies). Supposed to cure a wide range of ailments. It's called bitters for a reason, although I've grown to like the taste.
We're in our mid-50s and, if you younger pedes don't know what's coming in your future, older ladies start losing their sex drive as menopause creeps in. Was 18 months since the last time we got busy until last month when this stuff seemed to kick in for her. Still not where we were in our 20s and 30s, but I got laid three times in the last six weeks. Needless to say, I'm keeping us well-stocked in this magic juice.
Admittedly, this is all anecdotal, but I'm a fan.
Upvote for knowing how it feels to be in late 50s.
Sure sucks in a lot of ways, still better than the alternative, at least sometimes....
TBF, plenty of older fellow men warned me what to expect when I was younger, but I still wasn't really prepared. Thought I had another 10 years to get ready...
Sad thing is I don't look my age and am in better shape than in my 40s - my libido is stronger than ever. Luckily I work from home and no longer have the distractions of lady coworkers. I'd like to think I'd be strong enough to stay faithful, but there were days in that last 18 months spell I was glad I didn't have to find out for sure. But the reality is that, at best, I got a brief respite and I get to spend the next 30 years in involuntary celibacy.
I don't know why women either don't know or don't care how important sex is to a husband's well-being and performance - at work, in interpersonal relationships, and in success in just about all aspects of life. For better or worse, it drives a lot of what we do, how we act, and whether we succeed. I'm convinced married women could collectively kill at least half the porn industry if they just made love with their husbands more often. Probably would also get more action on those honey-do items too if they didn't take away the poor guy's main motivation.
Ew, really?
Have sex with me and I'll do more chores?
I could never be married to someone like this. I find this mentality incredibly immature and a huge turn off.
It's not a question of a trade, it's a question of motivation.
There's a reason men are driven to achieve, to do the hard things women don't want to do - whether it's wars, or fighting nature, or doing mindless chores, and the root of it is sex or the promise/possibility of sex. It doesn't even have to be a realistic possibility. We are driven to procreate at the most basic level. Heck, our race would have died off long ago if it was left solely to women.
"I find this mentality incredibly immature and a huge turn off."
Guess what men think about women's emotion-driven actions/inactions? It's not wrong, it's what makes us complementary as genders. The difference is women's needs are drilled into men's heads their entire lives, while women appear to be completely oblivious to those of men.
Men who don't support their women are pariahed by society, while women treat leaving their men unfulfilled as a running joke.
This is the stuff we take:
https://www.amenazelorganic.com/product-page/amenazel-organic-soursop-bitters
Nettle leaf extract, give that a trial and see what happens.