"Its not the sort of demeanor I'd expect".

Its such a blessing to have opportunities to start learning about the wider world and about how differently people, especially from different cultures and backgrounds, react, including how individuals react to situations I've never experienced.

These opportunities help me to understand the importance of Qs famous words to anons, " Expand your thinking".

Doing so helps improve the quality of analysis. It also protects against heart darkening damage.

Bottom line, my current reminder to myself is to react by praying for rather than preying on people. Consequently, thanks to OP, I'm now praying for Gonzalo.