Not a climate change believer but I love my Tesla. I bought it because I'm a techy and love how flipping cool this car is. I can see when you are renting and don't have access to a home charger that it may be a PITA. The rest of the issues you state have been non-issues for me. Drove it from Colorado to Arizona when we moved expecting to dread it and loved every minute of it. Even the charging was no big deal.

Once you know how to manage the windshield wipers it is one click. My doors lock automatically - I've never had to lock them. If you charge at home charging costs are negligible.

Autopilot is definitely sketchy so I'll give you that one.