Chatgpt response, very much like Knew2u's response.
It sounds like you're dealing with a complex situation. Your niece is clearly going through a lot, trying to find her identity while also dealing with challenges like autism and past experiences with bullying. These are layered issues that won't resolve overnight.
Since she's resistant to engaging, you might want to start small. Maybe leave her a note or a small gift—something you think she might appreciate. You could also introduce her to activities that don't require a lot of social interaction at first, such as exploring nature or doing a craft. If she's into the "goth" subculture, perhaps there's a way to incorporate that interest into something you can do together.
Communication is key, so if she does open up, listen without judgment. It's essential for her to feel heard and understood. It might also be helpful to find some common ground between your beliefs and hers—after all, many religious and spiritual paths have similarities or overlapping values.
Your way of life, more in line with the Amish, could offer her a different perspective, even if she doesn't fully embrace it. The slower pace and focus on community might be a refreshing change for her, even if she doesn't realize it yet.
But remember, you can't force someone to change; they have to want to change themselves. Be patient, and give her space when she needs it. You're already showing great empathy by wanting to connect with her, which is a strong foundation for building a meaningful relationship.
Chatgpt response, very much like Knew2u's response.
It sounds like you're dealing with a complex situation. Your niece is clearly going through a lot, trying to find her identity while also dealing with challenges like autism and past experiences with bullying. These are layered issues that won't resolve overnight.
Since she's resistant to engaging, you might want to start small. Maybe leave her a note or a small gift—something you think she might appreciate. You could also introduce her to activities that don't require a lot of social interaction at first, such as exploring nature or doing a craft. If she's into the "goth" subculture, perhaps there's a way to incorporate that interest into something you can do together.
Communication is key, so if she does open up, listen without judgment. It's essential for her to feel heard and understood. It might also be helpful to find some common ground between your beliefs and hers—after all, many religious and spiritual paths have similarities or overlapping values.
Your way of life, more in line with the Amish, could offer her a different perspective, even if she doesn't fully embrace it. The slower pace and focus on community might be a refreshing change for her, even if she doesn't realize it yet.
But remember, you can't force someone to change; they have to want to change themselves. Be patient, and give her space when she needs it. You're already showing great empathy by wanting to connect with her, which is a strong foundation for building a meaningful relationship.