yep, my father had parkinson's and ended up in full care facility for 6 years. me, my sister, and mother had to be on top of his care the whole time. it was horrible. we found infected toe nails, bed sores, rotted teeth, black and blue mark on his nose, (he was immobile and couldn't speak) etc.

it was always us finding these things and demanding this stuff be taken care of. thank heavens my sister is an RN because she could figure out the med part. was a nightmare and we were exhausted. you need a medical degree just to ensure a family member is properly cared for.