From approximately age 12 I was told by countless people that if I didn't do "x", then no woman would have me. I refused to do it. Eventually they told me to do "x" just to "get girls" and gain some life experience. I refused. All of that just made me dig in harder to do what I wanted to do.
Unfortunately, they were almost right. I even went on a date with a woman in college who asked me about "x" and when I told her I hadn't done it, she got real quiet and didn't speak to me again.
But I didn't let that sway me, even when a girlfriend of mine told me she couldn't marry me.
You have to have conviction. I don't bow to peer pressure.
Also, if my sister did this to me, I'd just think she's a massive bitch. And something similar happened, given that she was one who told me that I'm not a man because I didn't do "x" and that no woman would have me.
From approximately age 12 I was told by countless people that if I didn't do "x", then no woman would have me. I refused to do it. Eventually they told me to do "x" just to "get girls" and gain some life experience. I refused. All of that just made me dig in harder to do what I wanted to do.
Unfortunately, they were almost right. I even went on a date with a woman in college who asked me about "x" and when I told her I hadn't done it, she got real quiet and didn't speak to me again.
But I didn't let that sway me, even when a girlfriend of mine told me she couldn't marry me.
You have to have conviction. I don't bow to peer pressure.
Also, if my sister did this to me, I'd just think she's a massive bitch. And something similar happened, given that she was one who told me that I'm not a man because I didn't do "x" and that no woman would have me.
Going down on a chick isn't that bad. It's not amazing, but it's good enough if you like the girl and she keeps up with herself.
That's not the thing I'm referring to. But good to know!