Seen far too many Marriages blow up and the divorces turn ugly. That’s it’s turned me off the idea as a whole. Only marriage I’ve seen turn out well. Has been my parents. Friends, coworkers, and other people I know. Are either single, Divorced with nasty breakups, or married and utterly miserable.
My Sisters are all married. And it seems to be happy marriages. But I can’t reliably verify what their like when not around family.
While I’m afraid I can’t offer legal help or advice. Other then you should really, really, really only be interacting through a lawyer. Regardless of the elapsed time from the Divorce. As otherwise it becomes a “He said, she said” game. And the courts normally favor the Woman’s version of events regardless of evidence.
And a word of warning that frankly recordings probably aren’t going to be considered a silver bullet for much longer in legal proceedings. With all the AI shit that’s out for faking recordings and videos. So if you plan on using it. Do it sooner rather than later.
Thanks for reinforcing my decision to never get married. Far too many crazy bitches out there these days.
I was trapped. She told my Sister, one night when she was drunk that she got off birth control to trap me. Of course she was blackout drunk while doing so.
She is a liberal and told me that I wanted to abort my 1st borne. I'm against any abortion so the idea is laughable but it hurts to hear her say so.
She makes up lies and repeats them to herself so much that she believes them.
Wouldn’t be the first dude to get Baby trapped with another man’s kids. If she’s still harassing you even after the paperwork is filed. For one she seems like the sort who’d be crazy enough to cheat on you and convince herself it’s your fault she’s a whore. Two she’s probably trying to get a reaction out of you for whatever reason.
And again. Really look into a lawyer to handle any and all communications with her. It’ll probably be expensive. But it’ll be better odds of keeping you out of legal trouble. And she may quit if she’s not able to get to you directly and thus isn’t able to get the reaction she wants.
You mentioned kids? Is the Baby still at home or moved out? For your sake I hope the kids moved out of the house. Because If your in any sort of split Custody or you somehow wrangled full Custody. She’ll probably be more then willing to get at you through the child. Probably with abuse complaints. Either Anonymous or she’ll coach the kid if they are young enough to level accusations.
So if you do go manage any sort of protective order. She’ll probably try that route. And that can open the door to an utter shitshow. That’s of course assuming she’s really out to make your life hard. And isn’t some weird form of bullying she’ll give up on once she can’t get a reaction from you.
And again. A Lawyer to handle communications might be good in the future.
50/50 custody of a 13m and 11f. My boy is smart enough not to fall for her shit.
I haven't had a paternity test. My boy looks just like me. My daughter looks like she came from me as well but more like her mother. I'll look into this, but at this point I wouldn't give up custody because they are my children and even if both of them weren't from me, I'd still raise them. I couldn't let her poison their minds. I love them to much.
Seen far too many Marriages blow up and the divorces turn ugly. That’s it’s turned me off the idea as a whole. Only marriage I’ve seen turn out well. Has been my parents. Friends, coworkers, and other people I know. Are either single, Divorced with nasty breakups, or married and utterly miserable.
My Sisters are all married. And it seems to be happy marriages. But I can’t reliably verify what their like when not around family.
While I’m afraid I can’t offer legal help or advice. Other then you should really, really, really only be interacting through a lawyer. Regardless of the elapsed time from the Divorce. As otherwise it becomes a “He said, she said” game. And the courts normally favor the Woman’s version of events regardless of evidence.
And a word of warning that frankly recordings probably aren’t going to be considered a silver bullet for much longer in legal proceedings. With all the AI shit that’s out for faking recordings and videos. So if you plan on using it. Do it sooner rather than later.
Thanks for reinforcing my decision to never get married. Far too many crazy bitches out there these days.
I was trapped. She told my Sister, one night when she was drunk that she got off birth control to trap me. Of course she was blackout drunk while doing so.
She is a liberal and told me that I wanted to abort my 1st borne. I'm against any abortion so the idea is laughable but it hurts to hear her say so.
She makes up lies and repeats them to herself so much that she believes them.
Did you get a paternity test?
Wouldn’t be the first dude to get Baby trapped with another man’s kids. If she’s still harassing you even after the paperwork is filed. For one she seems like the sort who’d be crazy enough to cheat on you and convince herself it’s your fault she’s a whore. Two she’s probably trying to get a reaction out of you for whatever reason.
And again. Really look into a lawyer to handle any and all communications with her. It’ll probably be expensive. But it’ll be better odds of keeping you out of legal trouble. And she may quit if she’s not able to get to you directly and thus isn’t able to get the reaction she wants.
You mentioned kids? Is the Baby still at home or moved out? For your sake I hope the kids moved out of the house. Because If your in any sort of split Custody or you somehow wrangled full Custody. She’ll probably be more then willing to get at you through the child. Probably with abuse complaints. Either Anonymous or she’ll coach the kid if they are young enough to level accusations.
So if you do go manage any sort of protective order. She’ll probably try that route. And that can open the door to an utter shitshow. That’s of course assuming she’s really out to make your life hard. And isn’t some weird form of bullying she’ll give up on once she can’t get a reaction from you.
And again. A Lawyer to handle communications might be good in the future.
50/50 custody of a 13m and 11f. My boy is smart enough not to fall for her shit.
I haven't had a paternity test. My boy looks just like me. My daughter looks like she came from me as well but more like her mother. I'll look into this, but at this point I wouldn't give up custody because they are my children and even if both of them weren't from me, I'd still raise them. I couldn't let her poison their minds. I love them to much.