It is indeed hard these days to find nice, moral, kind men and women. Those men and women are just as timid/hesitant to approach each other. Look at libraries, churches, coffee shops, rallies, etc. Do not look at bars or on line web sites. Sometimes just being polite will open a door. Help someone change a tire, hold the door open for a woman. Any woman worth her weight in kind will appreciate the politeness and gallantry.