"She said she felt used and unloved by her managers and coworkers, and hated coming home to an empty apartment every night."

You say a lot of interesting things in the paragraphs above. The one I found most interesting was the quote from your daughter I copied at the start of this, above. I don't know your family situation, but if you have a wife who is against you and not on the same page as you, your life can be difficult also. If you aren't married or if you are and your wife are on the same page, let the children (adults) know they have a specific amount of time to get their act together and make plans on getting a job and working, one you are going to start making them pay rent, two you are going to kick them out when the time limit is up and they are not working by that time. Otherwise they might be sponges all their lives. And your daughter shouldn't be seeking lover from her managers and coworkers, one or two might be love interests, but not all of them. She was hired to do a job, not to be adored by her managers or coworkers. A little harsh, but true.

Now, my wife wouldn't allow me to do this to with our children-that is why I stated you both need to be on the same page. But my kids, both boys have their own lives and are out of the house-we did let one of them live with us for a couple of years to save money for a house (no rent, per my wife and the stay went slightly over two years). Oh well, that was my