I’m in exactly the same boat, 20k in and don’t want quit my job. I ended up “borrowing” 10k because I’m struggling right now. They automatically deduct about $200 a month to pay it back. They win… but I will at least have new tires on my and wife’s cars for the winter…
Imagine thinking your 401k is yours. I stopped funding it a year ago and invest in gold and silver for my future.
Same, sadly I’ve dunked $20k and can’t get that shit out without quitting my comfy ass job.
I’m in exactly the same boat, 20k in and don’t want quit my job. I ended up “borrowing” 10k because I’m struggling right now. They automatically deduct about $200 a month to pay it back. They win… but I will at least have new tires on my and wife’s cars for the winter…