Realize you are not joining with a woman, you are joining with a family. If you put her in the middle of a tug of war, the result will not be good no matter which direction it goes. I suggest that you first pray for discernment and discuss with your clergy if you are part of a faith community. Settle your soul. Then talk to her. Make decisions together about the potential path forward.
Realize you are not joining with a woman, you are joining with a family. If you put her in the middle of a tug of war, the result will not be good no matter which direction it goes. I suggest that you first pray for discernment and discuss with your clergy if you are part of a faith community. Settle your soul. Then talk to her. Make decisions together about the potential path forward.