To briefly get personal- when my other half again bemoans that fact that we haven't been intimate for a long time now, I'll explain to her that there's a reason, but that I can't tell her that reason yet. I have to do this because she is 150% asleep and refuses to listen to evidence of or even consider that her beloved health care industry (that she works in) and government are out to kill her, and she's been triple-vaxxed, which is why it's not going to happen for us anytime soon (VAIDs or other dangers that we may not know about). I'll have to reassure her that it's not because of cheating, she doesn't do it for me, or various other reasons, but I have to remain steadfast in not being able to tell her at that time, and keep it at that (no reasons why, just point-blank, "I can't tell you right now"). Whether she goes, stays, or prays, that's on her, and it won't break my heart whatever decision she makes. I've already run out of options as far as trying to show her what's going on, so maybe this will help her wake up. Or maybe not...
There’s a method to my madness, frens… especially since I’ve already wasted three years of my time trying to get her to see the truth to no avail. She’ll find out for herself, when the time comes and it can’t be avoided. Sometimes, you can’t tell people. You have to show them, and let them figure it out…
I heard a good saying today, "Always speak the truth, but remember the truth doesn't always have to be spoken." I believe you are doing the wise thing, atarikee.
To briefly get personal- when my other half again bemoans that fact that we haven't been intimate for a long time now, I'll explain to her that there's a reason, but that I can't tell her that reason yet. I have to do this because she is 150% asleep and refuses to listen to evidence of or even consider that her beloved health care industry (that she works in) and government are out to kill her, and she's been triple-vaxxed, which is why it's not going to happen for us anytime soon (VAIDs or other dangers that we may not know about). I'll have to reassure her that it's not because of cheating, she doesn't do it for me, or various other reasons, but I have to remain steadfast in not being able to tell her at that time, and keep it at that (no reasons why, just point-blank, "I can't tell you right now"). Whether she goes, stays, or prays, that's on her, and it won't break my heart whatever decision she makes. I've already run out of options as far as trying to show her what's going on, so maybe this will help her wake up. Or maybe not...
Why not just tell her why and get it over with. Seems like you're cutting off your dick to spite your balls.
There’s a method to my madness, frens… especially since I’ve already wasted three years of my time trying to get her to see the truth to no avail. She’ll find out for herself, when the time comes and it can’t be avoided. Sometimes, you can’t tell people. You have to show them, and let them figure it out…
I heard a good saying today, "Always speak the truth, but remember the truth doesn't always have to be spoken." I believe you are doing the wise thing, atarikee.