Married with (homeschooled) kids here. We were feeling a little isolated too, until we prayed to find other awakened people to have friendships with, and I kid you not, suddenly it was like they were coming out of the woodwork. If you feel like you need to stay in a blue city, I'm sure things will be a little harder, but consider other areas too, without fluoridated and prozac-contaminated water... Think about going where your 'targeted' new friend might be- a maga rally, gun club, awake/ based church... While establishment RINOs are still all over the GOP, I can also tell you that there are a TON of new precinct and district leaders. If they're not single, they have family members and friends, and hanging out with these folks will not only let you be yourself (an incredibly freeing experience) but will let you meet others in the same boat. Godspeed!