It’s encouraging to see you’re recovering and understanding well now. And will be prepared for the next one.
Adding to it all, my dad had severe dementia/Alzheimer’s for a few years. In early ‘20 mom was having a difficult time caring for him and decided to find an assisted living facility to put him in. I helped look at places and he was placed a short time later. Then on my birthday mom calls saying dad is having issues and they’re taking him to the hospital. We’re a 24 hr drive from them. I packed and was out the door in an hour.
Got to the hospital. My brother, sister in law (useless now ex SIL) and mom were there. Only one person allowed in the room to visit at a time. Al the beginning BS protocol crap. Dad was unresponsive, on O2, they weren’t really doing anything to hep him recover.
I stayed with him overnight that night. In the morning his breathing became irregular. I called my brother and told him and mom to get the gel upstairs. Regardless of the one visitor ‘rules’. Dad passed about 30 min after they arrived.
Then the ridiculousness of no large gatherings, etc etc. planning the wake and funeral this was in NYS. Fuck cuomo. Affirmations he goes to prison for his accessory to murders.
That night they were administering a few things to dad. He was hospitalized because he had Hypernatremia. A severe high level of sodium in the blood. He and mom never hydrated properly. And once in assisted living it was obviously even worse.
I’m sure the hospital was voting him other things, remdesiver, Midazolam, etc. Midazolam side effects include slowing the respiratory response.
I haven’t asked mom for dads hospital records to confirm any of this. Mom is weak and is still starting to understand ‘authorities’ aren’t always acting in the best interest of the citizens of the USA. She never questioned any medical advice previously. I’ve been in fire/EMS for 10 years but ‘I’m not a doctor’ so she discounts much of what I tell her. I’m the ‘sensitive’ brother conspiracy theorist (therapist actually). She’d blow up if I told her why I want to read them.
Dad wasn’t well cared for in his last few months. Though I sometimes think it’s better than having to have gone through the bulk of the fauxdemic, and had sick patients placed in assisted living with him, etc.
We’ve all learned a lot these last few years. We must use this information to grow our wisdom and fight to not allow them to perpetrate anything like this ever again. And allow ourselves to heal so we can move forward and teach others.
It’s encouraging to see you’re recovering and understanding well now. And will be prepared for the next one.
Adding to it all, my dad had severe dementia/Alzheimer’s for a few years. In early ‘20 mom was having a difficult time caring for him and decided to find an assisted living facility to put him in. I helped look at places and he was placed a short time later. Then on my birthday mom calls saying dad is having issues and they’re taking him to the hospital. We’re a 24 hr drive from them. I packed and was out the door in an hour.
Got to the hospital. My brother, sister in law (useless now ex SIL) and mom were there. Only one person allowed in the room to visit at a time. Al the beginning BS protocol crap. Dad was unresponsive, on O2, they weren’t really doing anything to hep him recover.
I stayed with him overnight that night. In the morning his breathing became irregular. I called my brother and told him and mom to get the gel upstairs. Regardless of the one visitor ‘rules’. Dad passed about 30 min after they arrived.
Then the ridiculousness of no large gatherings, etc etc. planning the wake and funeral this was in NYS. Fuck cuomo. Affirmations he goes to prison for his accessory to murders.
That night they were administering a few things to dad. He was hospitalized because he had Hypernatremia. A severe high level of sodium in the blood. He and mom never hydrated properly. And once in assisted living it was obviously even worse.
I’m sure the hospital was voting him other things, remdesiver, Midazolam, etc. Midazolam side effects include slowing the respiratory response.
I haven’t asked mom for dads hospital records to confirm any of this. Mom is weak and is still starting to understand ‘authorities’ aren’t always acting in the best interest of the citizens of the USA. She never questioned any medical advice previously. I’ve been in fire/EMS for 10 years but ‘I’m not a doctor’ so she discounts much of what I tell her. I’m the ‘sensitive’ brother conspiracy theorist (therapist actually). She’d blow up if I told her why I want to read them.
Dad wasn’t well cared for in his last few months. Though I sometimes think it’s better than having to have gone through the bulk of the fauxdemic, and had sick patients placed in assisted living with him, etc.
We’ve all learned a lot these last few years. We must use this information to grow our wisdom and fight to not allow them to perpetrate anything like this ever again. And allow ourselves to heal so we can move forward and teach others.