I never once questioned my mother's income or my father's!! It was never a discussion. We ate homemade meals consisting of meat, potatoes, and vegetables - (which were not an optional choice). No vegetables, no dessert!!! We didn't talk unless told to, hence we were known as the silent generation. We never touched anything that did not belong to us. We never opened a refrigerator at anyone's house unless asked to do so. We were taught to respect other peoples property. And we were rewarded for acting properly.
We grew up during a time when we mowed lawns, pulled weeds, babysat, helped with all chores. We by no means were given everything we wanted. We went outside a lot to play, run with friends, play hide and seek, or went bike riding. We rarely just sat inside.
Bottled water was unheard of. If we had a Coke, it was in a glass bottle, and we didn’t break the bottle when finished. We saved the bottle for the return money.
We had to tell our parents where we were going, who we were going with, and be home before dark..
You LEARNED from your parents instead of disrespecting them and treating them as if they knew absolutely nothing. What they said was LAW and you did not question it and you had better know it! We watched what we said around our elders and neighbors because we knew if we DISRESPECTED any grown-up, we would get a real good whooping, it wasn't called abuse, it was called discipline!
We held the doors for others and carried the shopping into the house. We gave up our seat for an older person without being asked. You didn't hear swear words on the radio in songs or on TV.
“Please and Thank you", were part of our daily vocabulary! The world we live in now is just so full of people who hate and disrespect others.
Frens, consider Re-posting if you're thankful for your childhood. I will never forget where I came from and only wish children and people nowadays had half the chance at the fun and respect for real life we grew up with! And we were never bored!
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Yes, indeed! We played baseball in the (suburban neighborhood) street, All kinds of yard games - Red Rover - Red Light, Green Light, camped out in the back yard, built forts in the woods. If I see something on the floor in a store I pick it up, just like Mom did. If I acted up in a store, I’d either be banished to the car or Mom would put the grocers from the cart away and we’d leave.
One time, Dad told me to put my shoes on while we were riding in the car. We were going to stop at a restaurant for a piece of pie….a rare treat….I did not do it. Dad parked the car in front of a window in the restaurant. I don’t know what he did, but he and Mom sat at the window where I could see - they could see me too - and had pie and coffee. I think Dad ate his pie very slowly. 😂 I never got any pie and I never did anything like that again….Good times!
I think most of us grew up with a wonderful life. Sorry about your missed pie.
Ha. I’m nearly 70 and I still look back at it with a smile. Learned my lesson. Blessings to you.
This is what we need to bring our grandchildren back into a way of truly learning, living and enjoying life. Nothing those game systems and cell phones can show them.
So very true.