I never once questioned my mother's income or my father's!! It was never a discussion. We ate homemade meals consisting of meat, potatoes, and vegetables - (which were not an optional choice). No vegetables, no dessert!!! We didn't talk unless told to, hence we were known as the silent generation. We never touched anything that did not belong to us. We never opened a refrigerator at anyone's house unless asked to do so. We were taught to respect other peoples property. And we were rewarded for acting properly.
We grew up during a time when we mowed lawns, pulled weeds, babysat, helped with all chores. We by no means were given everything we wanted. We went outside a lot to play, run with friends, play hide and seek, or went bike riding. We rarely just sat inside.
Bottled water was unheard of. If we had a Coke, it was in a glass bottle, and we didn’t break the bottle when finished. We saved the bottle for the return money.
We had to tell our parents where we were going, who we were going with, and be home before dark..
You LEARNED from your parents instead of disrespecting them and treating them as if they knew absolutely nothing. What they said was LAW and you did not question it and you had better know it! We watched what we said around our elders and neighbors because we knew if we DISRESPECTED any grown-up, we would get a real good whooping, it wasn't called abuse, it was called discipline!
We held the doors for others and carried the shopping into the house. We gave up our seat for an older person without being asked. You didn't hear swear words on the radio in songs or on TV.
“Please and Thank you", were part of our daily vocabulary! The world we live in now is just so full of people who hate and disrespect others.
Frens, consider Re-posting if you're thankful for your childhood. I will never forget where I came from and only wish children and people nowadays had half the chance at the fun and respect for real life we grew up with! And we were never bored!
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I was raised the same. But I could use the push mower and as a teen I did mow the lawn. My dad said I should never allow someone to do something for me that I could do myself, so he taught me a bunch of things about tools that my husband appreciates. Kek. Before I could get my driver’s license though, he made me learn to do a tune up, oil change, change a tire, check the radiator and washer fluid. I had to learn to drive in the snow and find any address (in Seattle).
On one of our first dates I helped my husband clean the bottom of a 40’ fishing boat (Seward, Alaska). Kek. I wasn’t afraid of breaking nails and knew how to do hard work. My parents taught me that.
I feel sorry for many of the ‘kids’ nowadays.
Sounds wonderful. I helped my ex-husband/kids father clean out a cattle trailer once and when the men in the shop saw me doing it, they all stood there amazed. My ex was a truck driver. He was also the one I helped when he did his engine/car repair.
Oh, a cattle trailer! 🥹 You are a tough cookie!
I only helped him once. That was enough for me.
Same here. KEK! 😂