You are what you tell yourself that you are. You can not judge yourself based on how others treat you.
Here's some things I've learned in my own personal journey over the last few years. These things remove blaming yourself for what others do. You are not in control of anyone or anything but your own reactions to things that happen.
After applying these things, you'll never again have to ask yourself "what am I doing to deserve being treated this way?"
if they want to, they will
people treat you how they feel about you
the way people treat you is their self reflection
who they are in the end is who they are
everyone knows what they're doing
On #3 ; it is self reflection because you can't give anyone that in which you haven't already given yourself. If you don't love yourself, you absolutely can not love anyone else.
Also remember that :
you can't go back in time and change things
nobody knows the future
all you have is the actual "right now"
This means that everything is temporary and only one page in one chapter to the book of your life.
You are what you tell yourself that you are. You can not judge yourself based on how others treat you.
Here's some things I've learned in my own personal journey over the last few years. These things remove blaming yourself for what others do. You are not in control of anyone or anything but your own reactions to things that happen.
After applying these things, you'll never again have to ask yourself "what am I doing to deserve being treated this way?"
On #3 ; it is self reflection because you can't give anyone that in which you haven't already given yourself. If you don't love yourself, you absolutely can not love anyone else.
Also remember that :
This means that everything is temporary and only one page in one chapter to the book of your life.