The point is that you were competing against boys until they had a girls league, and you were willing to make boys uncomfortable, to go against their faith or force them to forfeit if they didn't want to wrestle a girl so you could have your way. My friend's sons found the experience humiliating, and they beat their girl opponents...imagine how boys felt that lost. The sexual divide kept these things in perspective. You obviously considered your needs/wants/desires more important than theirs. In my mind, your actions contributed to the problem we are having now, weakening sexual distinctiveness, whether or not you can acknowledge it.
The point is that you were competing against boys until they had a girls league, and you were willing to make boys uncomfortable, to go against their faith or force them to forfeit if they didn't want to wrestle a girl so you could have your way. My friend's sons found the experience humiliating, and they beat their girl opponents...imagine how boys felt that lost. The sexual divide kept these things in perspective. You obviously considered your needs/wants/desires more important than theirs. In my mind, your actions contributed to the problem we are having now, weakening sexual distinctiveness, whether or not you can acknowledge it.