When I was new to their (Candance, Ben, Charlie, Tim (gay) Poole) brand of outreach I'll admit I was initially drawn in because it was nice to hear someone vocalize some of my thoughts and views. But I feel like time after time videos of their confrontations come up and it just turns into these chess matches of trying to make the other person sound stupid. I'm fine with that when it's a 1:1 conversation, but when you come out sounding petty or argumentative because you sought it out you wind up sounding just like the people we're up against.

I get it, don't play nice because it gives them a longer leash, but their type of combative and mostly fruitless back and forths are not going to be what gets people interested in seeing things from a different perspective.