There are lazy stay at home moms. There are diligent stay at home moms. There are diligent stay at home moms who run side gigs to bring in some spare change.

There are lazy husbands. There are diligent husbands. There are lazy employees. There are diligent employees.

Laziness shouldn’t be rewarded. Diligence should. Doesn’t matter where at.

Now, the idea that stay .. at. ..

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“Stay at home” is the exact same damn thing as “cis-gender”. They made up a freaking term and hypnotized us with it to get us to argue about things that don’t exist.

“There are moms who stay at home. There are moms who work in offices. There are wives who work for their husbands. There are wives who work for other men.”

This is witchcraft. Break the spells.

The terms are “wife”, “mother”, “matriarch”, “queen”.