Please pray. Please, please pray. For my mental and emotional health. She just very quickly emptied out everything from the closet. My heart is just ... crushed.
Sorry I keep posting about all this stuff on here. I don't know where else to go to get prayer or healing.
Time to man up.
Looks like it's finally real.
Edit: F this. I'm tired of feeling sad about this shit, ya'll. F it. By the way when she did this I didn't even give it an ounce of energy. Which was different. I need to stop putting so much care on all this and let God handle it. Also, I might feel like this cause I just pumped weights for 30 minutes and listened some upbeat rock music. That'll do it.
Edit 2: And F this little u/KrisAngeln who was too afraid to post it publicly and wants to message me saying I'm a nonstarter and a cuck and that he hopes my wife gives my kids a different dad. F you bro for your lack of compassion - cant even post it publicly? I hope you don't go through multiple family suicides like I did. If you did, you'd know what the f*** pain feels like.
Anyway - I agree with a lot of the messages here. Focusing on myself and my kids now. I'm done. This will be my last sob story (I'm not saying I won't ask for prayers, though).
Absolutely this. You cannot control what others will do, only yourself. Go out and do something. Start working out, change your diet to something more healthy, find friends that have similar interests, get fresh air as much as possible. Do you golf? Go play every week. Remember how horrible those breakups were in high school and just after? This is the same, just more difficult and complicated. You will get through this unless YOU let it destroy you. Have faith. Maybe go hit church on Sunday as well. Cheers fren, am pulling for you.
so dang true. was just thinking to myself that I've been through this crap before on a smaller scale and I had no where to share it - no reason why I can't get through it again. God's like "dude, don't you remember everything I've gotten you through over the last few decades?"
so chill and relax, God will get you through it all again,. besides, she is doing all this to create drama. best way to get back at her for that drama is to ignore it all and let her know you are nonplussed by her bs. you got this.