Please pray. Please, please pray. For my mental and emotional health. She just very quickly emptied out everything from the closet. My heart is just ... crushed.
Sorry I keep posting about all this stuff on here. I don't know where else to go to get prayer or healing.
Time to man up.
Looks like it's finally real.
Edit: F this. I'm tired of feeling sad about this shit, ya'll. F it. By the way when she did this I didn't even give it an ounce of energy. Which was different. I need to stop putting so much care on all this and let God handle it. Also, I might feel like this cause I just pumped weights for 30 minutes and listened some upbeat rock music. That'll do it.
Edit 2: And F this little u/KrisAngeln who was too afraid to post it publicly and wants to message me saying I'm a nonstarter and a cuck and that he hopes my wife gives my kids a different dad. F you bro for your lack of compassion - cant even post it publicly? I hope you don't go through multiple family suicides like I did. If you did, you'd know what the f*** pain feels like.
Anyway - I agree with a lot of the messages here. Focusing on myself and my kids now. I'm done. This will be my last sob story (I'm not saying I won't ask for prayers, though).
Never think for a moment that this is something you did. NEVER. You are a good man and usually when this sort of thing happens, the spouse tries to point blame at the other. It is nothing you did. It is her. She will have to work it out. She will awaken one day and ask herself why she did what she did. And she will have to answer to God for it. So please, never take the blame for her feelings and actions. She brought this on, not you. Each day that goes by will become a little bit easier for you. You will never forget her as she was a huge part of your life and she will always hold a special place in your heart. But God will comfort you and he will make room in your heart for another that you will love even more. You may not see it right now, but you will be grateful when God sends you that new lady. God bless you my friend. Please try to sleep easy tonight.
Agree. Even my oldest step daughter (20) says "Dad I dont want her to snap out of this in a year and realize the mistake that she made and that she threw everything away and she's miserable and alone."
Thank you. I can't imagine having anyone else in my life. Don't think I'll ever subject this to myself again. Probably be a hermit. Thanks for your prayers.
This happened to my spouse before we met. Unfaithful, emotionally abusive ex with hidden drug problems. She called it a "backwards blessing." Seems like the end of the world at the time. But it ends up being for the best if you trust God through it. We've been married over 31 years now and we're both still very happy. I promise, life can be better than it's ever been with the right person in your life.