I respect your viewpoint. And ultimately you can't control people.
But.
Culture does matter. Its thugs. Not skin color.
A black person in south chicago, or compton
is not the same
as a black british person
or a black person living in south africa, or jamaica.
There are a lot of respectable black people.
But also stereotypes are perpetuated that black men are tougher, have bigger 'bbc's etc.
Which statistically isnt true, thats a health issue not a skin color issue.
Its not skin color that bothers me so much as stereotypes and women getting a fetish based on a false premise.
Or the classic 'ditching a white guy' to go bang a thug.
Even Candace Owens and similar black female commentators noted this.
White suburban women fly to the carribbean for some BBC action while they cheat on thier husband with thugs and black guys.
Or michigan women driving to chicago to get coked up and bang thugs because they are bored.
Or cancun. Pretty much anything in cancun.
Its a cliche.
And it pollutes the waters.
So its not so much skin color.
As it is bad taste.
There is a difference between a white woman dating, for example, WIll Smith or Denzel Washington
And a white woman LOWERING HER STANDARDS to fulfill a false fantasy based on arbitrary cultural stereotypes shoved down the pipe of mtv or tiktok or instagram.
Some white women may date black men with a "bad boy" image because they believe they can change or "clean him up." There’s often a hope that they can help turn his life around.
For example, I grew up in Gary, Indiana, and although I wasn’t involved in street life, I had friends who were. One of them, a guy I knew well, got into a lot of trouble over the years. We lost touch, but years later, his brother passed away from liver failure, and we reconnected at the funeral.
To our surprise, this friend showed up married to a white woman. She had completely transformed him. His kids looked and acted like suburban kids—well-behaved, nothing like the life we knew he came from. We joked with him about his street past, and he admitted that meeting her had changed everything. They met at work, fell in love, and she helped him leave the street life behind. Now, he’s a dedicated father with a job.
This story reflects why some women, particularly those outside of the street life, might be drawn to these men. They believe they can be part of that transformation, helping them leave their past behind. In many cases, they come from families that aren't involved in the same struggles, which further supports the change.
I respect your viewpoint. And ultimately you can't control people.
But.
Culture does matter. Its thugs. Not skin color.
A black person in south chicago, or compton
is not the same
as a black british person
or a black person living in south africa, or jamaica.
There are a lot of respectable black people.
But also stereotypes are perpetuated that black men are tougher, have bigger 'bbc's etc.
Which statistically isnt true, thats a health issue not a skin color issue.
Its not skin color that bothers me so much as stereotypes and women getting a fetish based on a false premise.
Or the classic 'ditching a white guy' to go bang a thug.
Even Candace Owens and similar black female commentators noted this.
White suburban women fly to the carribbean for some BBC action while they cheat on thier husband with thugs and black guys.
Or michigan women driving to chicago to get coked up and bang thugs because they are bored.
Or cancun. Pretty much anything in cancun.
Its a cliche.
And it pollutes the waters.
So its not so much skin color.
As it is bad taste.
There is a difference between a white woman dating, for example, WIll Smith or Denzel Washington
And a white woman LOWERING HER STANDARDS to fulfill a false fantasy based on arbitrary cultural stereotypes shoved down the pipe of mtv or tiktok or instagram.
Also..
Some white women may date black men with a "bad boy" image because they believe they can change or "clean him up." There’s often a hope that they can help turn his life around.
For example, I grew up in Gary, Indiana, and although I wasn’t involved in street life, I had friends who were. One of them, a guy I knew well, got into a lot of trouble over the years. We lost touch, but years later, his brother passed away from liver failure, and we reconnected at the funeral.
To our surprise, this friend showed up married to a white woman. She had completely transformed him. His kids looked and acted like suburban kids—well-behaved, nothing like the life we knew he came from. We joked with him about his street past, and he admitted that meeting her had changed everything. They met at work, fell in love, and she helped him leave the street life behind. Now, he’s a dedicated father with a job.
This story reflects why some women, particularly those outside of the street life, might be drawn to these men. They believe they can be part of that transformation, helping them leave their past behind. In many cases, they come from families that aren't involved in the same struggles, which further supports the change.
I see what you are saying.
When you say LOWERING HER STANDARDS.
The reason why the thug can get some white women to go out with him. It because of how confident he is about the world.
Thugs tend to don't care what other people say or think about them. That confidence is why he can get women to go out with him.
So in her view.
He is not a low guy in society. In her view he is a confident protector type.
When the white man comes to her and shame her for dating the thug type.
In reality.
That white man looks weak and controlling actually.
Because he is letting his own opinion and jealously determine what's best for her.
This is why I strongly believe going forward. It's the interest of both white and black men to start networking with each other.
Once you do.. you would understand certain things like this.